Strengthen your connection from the very start.
Whether you’ve just met or you’ve been dating a while, these Sparks help you truly get to know each other — beyond the surface.
Each Dating Spark includes 10 carefully crafted questions designed to spark deeper conversation, build understanding, and nurture the emotional foundation that lasting relationships are built on.
How to Begin
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Review the list of Dating Sparks below.
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Each Spark includes unique questions and themes — pick whichever speaks to you.
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Click Buy Now to purchase and start your Spark. (Secure payment via PayPal.)
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After checkout, you’ll receive a Welcome Email with si mple instructions for inviting your partner and getting started in the Uchi app.
**Each Spark is just $10 and includes 2 people.
Ready to Spark Your Relationship?
Choose a Dating Spark below and begin building the connection that makes everything else possible.
Dating Spark 1 – Just Matched/Connected
Kick things off with light, fun, and playful questions to get to know each other and spark curiosity.
Sample Questions:
- What’s one thing that made you smile this week?
- If you could instantly become an expert at any hobby or skill, what would it be? Any particular reason why?
Dating Spark 2 – First Conversations
Dive a little deeper — explore values, interests, and what really matters to each of you.
Sample Questions:
- What’s one thing that always makes you laugh, no matter what?
- If you could relive one day from the past year, which day would it be and why?
Dating Spark 3 – Finding Common Ground
Discover shared interests, experiences, and values to strengthen your connection.
Sample Questions:
- What’s one hobby or activity you’ve always wanted to try together with someone?
- If you could spend a day exploring any city or place, which would you choose?
Dating Spark 4 – Fun & Play
Share laughter, playful moments, and light-hearted stories to keep things lively.
Sample Questions:
- What’s a silly or funny habit you have that always makes you laugh?
- If you could star in any movie genre, which would it be and why?
Dating Spark 5 – Deeper Interests & Values
Explore what drives each of you and discover shared passions and priorities.
Sample Questions:
- What’s a cause or issue that you feel strongly about?
- Which personal value do you prioritize most in your daily life?
Dating Spark 6 – Life Experiences
Share meaningful experiences, stories, and life lessons that shape who you are.
Sample Questions:
- What’s a memorable trip or adventure that left a lasting impression on you?
- Have you ever had an unexpected opportunity that changed your perspective?
Dating Spark 7 – Future Aspirations
Discuss dreams, goals, and where you see yourself in the years ahead.
Sample Questions:
- What’s a personal goal you’re currently working toward?
- Where do you see yourself living or traveling in the next five years?
Dating Spark 8 – Perspectives & Preferences
Understand how you see the world and what makes each of you unique.
Sample Questions:
- Are you more of a morning person or night owl — and why?
- How do you usually approach big decisions?
Dating Spark 9 – Intimacy & Vulnerability
Share feelings, hopes, and thoughts in a safe, private space for deeper connection.
Sample Questions:
- What’s one fear or worry that you rarely share with others?
- How do you usually express affection or care in relationships?
Dating Spark 10 – Reflecting & Connecting
Reflect on what you’ve learned, celebrate discoveries, and keep the connection growing.
Sample Questions:
- What’s one thing you’ve learned about yourself through this conversation?
- What’s something new you discovered about the other person?
More Sparks coming soon.